How to Connect with the “Unchurched”

As we continue looking at the building blocks necessary to be a church planter, these candidates need to be able to relate to the unchurched. Church planters face a unique challenge: connecting with those who haven't set foot in a church or have been hurt by the church. Success hinges on understanding the unchurched perspective.

When we have a Church Planting Assessment Center, the Assessment Team looks at areas such as communicating in a style that is understood by the unchurched, understanding the “psychology” or mentality of the unchurched, moving and functioning in the “personal space” of the unchurched without fear, quickly getting to know the unchurched on a personal level and being able to handle crises faced by the unchurched.

Many today feel disconnected from traditional church structures. This "unchurched" population might be surprised to learn the Bible itself offers ways to connect with faith outside of organized religion. In my church plants, I always emphasize that if you’re looking for organized religion, we are not that, we are totally unorganized. I usually get a laugh out of that comment.

The concept of "church" in the Bible differs from the church buildings we see today. The Greek word "ekklesia" translates to "assembly" or "the called-out ones," emphasizing the community aspect of faith. Early Christians met in homes and public spaces, focusing on fellowship and living out their beliefs (Acts 2:46-47). This focus on following Jesus' teachings aligns with the unchurched desire to understand who God really is.

The Bible also speaks to individual connection with God. Jesus emphasized a personal relationship with him over religious rituals (Matthew 6:6). This may resonate with the unchurched who might prefer a personal and authentic approach to spirituality.

Ultimately, faith is a personal journey. The Bible points to the foundation that the unchurched can attain a living and purposeful life, even outside the confines of traditional church environment.

Here are some recommendations for new church planters. First, ditch the church jargon. Speak in clear, relatable language that resonates with their everyday lives. Focus on the message of hope and purpose the Bible offers, not religious cliches.

Second, build relationships within the community before brick-and-mortar churches. Organize community events that address local needs. This demonstrates the church's commitment to serving, not just preaching.

Third, acknowledge the skepticism of past experiences. The unchurched might be wary of judgment or holding on to a past hurt. Create a welcoming environment that fosters open dialogue and emphasizes the love of Jesus.

By prioritizing connection, clear communication and genuine service, church planters can bridge the gap and create a thriving faith community for the unchurched.

Glenn Herschberger, Executive Director of Church Planting